Monday, October 25, 2010
It really hit home, because that story was so true for me! I never really planned to become a working mom and a student mom at the same time, while my kids are still pretty young. A few years ago, as it got harder and harder for us to make ends meet on one salary, I realized that staying home wasn't going to be option anymore. I really struggled with my attitude toward work at first. I loved my job, but I felt guilty for liking it. I felt guilty for not being with my family. Day after day, I hung on to the hope that it was just temporary, that I could one day cut down my hours to very part-time or quit altogether.
Months went by, and I finally had to come to terms with the fact that staying home just wasn't an option for me any more. That was really hard, but as I accepted the fact that I had to remain a working mom, I found my attitude towards it changing. I started finding more joy in my job, and I found that not only was that okay, but that it helped me become a better employee and a better mom. I started focusing more on the fact that I make a difference with what I do and that I help my family when I work.
In turn, that gave me the confidence I needed to return to school. I realized that as much as I enjoy my job, the pay would never be enough for me to really make a career out of it. I started thinking about returning to school and launching a career that would bring more job security and a better paycheck. After lots of research, lots of prayer, and months of agonizing over the decision, I returned to college in January, and I'm now preparing to turn in my application to dental hygiene school. I can't wait! Not only am I excited (but terrified!) - my husband and kids are excited too. My education and my new career have become a family goal.
The difference is definitely in the attitude! If you would like to read the full article from Working Mother magazine, you can link to it by clicking here. You can also join in the discussion I'll be starting later tonight on my Blog Frog Community.